you & them & missing is a quiet reflection on the absence of people you maybe want to be with, but maybe shouldn’t, and also on the lives we never lived and the versions of ourselves that never quite existed. It can feel like that familiar space between the people we long for and the people we once were, but also like the strange, nagging feeling of being surrounded yet still alone. Full of pressure, short and sweet (though not sweet, not really), the song is built on dreamy electronic textures with hints of dream pop and light DnB drums, and moves through confusion, nostalgia, and soft grief toward a certain kind of haunting release.
It isn’t about one specific person, but about the pressure of decision-making and the feeling of longing and responsibility that’s not quite there. A gentle but dark, looping yet evolving sense of missing, with no clear resolution. The song is just that… a fleeting feeling full of tension.
Artist: &Tilly, BlauDisS
Writers: &Tilly, BlauDisS
Lyrics: &Tilly
Music and production: BlauDisS
Video: &Tilly
You can find the you & them & missing [&Tilly x BlauDisS] song on:
Spotify ⇾ Deezer ⇾ Tidal ⇾ Apple Music ⇾ Bandcamp ⇾you and them I am missing (lives I’ve never led) them and then I am missing (parts I never had) you missed more where’s the life (we never ever made) them the roar where’s the sound (that never ever fades) you are missing (you are) I am missing (I am) you and them I am missing (I am) them and then I am missing (I am) you and them where you want to be me and then look through worlds to see you and me and a few others, too me and them and a whole lot of you and them (you) me and then (and) you and me (you) me and them (them) (you and) you and them me and then you and me me and them (them) you and them me and then you and me me and them them
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